I don’t understand why people need others to take sides in an argument. If someone is upset and wants to cut someone out of his/her life, why does that person expect family and friends to do the same — even if the disagreement had nothing to do with them? Some of them lie to force the issue. I just don’t understand — especially because we’re talking about adults.
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I have some personal experience with this particular situation. I believe people do this to punish the person they are angry with. It is juvenile and the fact that you don't understand it is a testament to your personal maturity. Lies are not acceptable in relationships and will eat away at the core of them. If someone has been lying to you about another person, let them know it will not be tolerated. Also, if you wish to remain unaffected declare it to be so. It is perfectly within the realm of your rights to be neutral.
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